Saturday, February 09, 2008

14 Months Old

So this week, the Tater Tot turned 14 months old. It has been quite a month. I’ll start with the exciting news…he is mobile! About three weeks ago, this happened one night (sorry for the not-so-great quality and for my quite annoying background voice).



He’s still doing just the army crawl, but he is really able to get around and is already so much faster. This has obviously changed things around the house. In fact, this weekend’s major projects include lots of baby proofing.



So remember all of the toys that invaded our home after his birthday and Christmas? Well now that he’s a man on the move, those aren’t very interesting. What is most interesting is crawling under the kitchen table chairs, getting into the cabinets, opening and closing drawers, and even pulling up to his knees on anything he can reach. The bumps and bruises have already begun.

But when he is playing with his toys, his new trick is to throw them. Everywhere. It was kind of cute and funny at first, but man oh man, this kid can throw. This has become one of a million parenting dilemmas I think about. How do you teach a 1-year-old what is OK to throw and what isn’t? I haven’t figured it out yet, so right now, just about everything gets thrown…food, toys, cups, you name it.

He has also continued to enjoy his tiger xylophone. Although we call it a piano because xylophone is not a word I see him learning any time soon. Anyway, this video is of his Jerry Lee Lewis impersonation.



Tate has had a lot of changes this month in his daily routine. I have to hand it to him, he has really handled it all wonderfully. He’s gone from two naps a day to one. That started off rough but quickly evened out to a good 3+ hour nap each day. Bless you child! He dropped his last bottle in the morning and before bed and is now completely on a sippy cup or cup with a straw. And he made the switch from formula to milk. I was expecting a major protest to these changes after hearing horror stories from some friends but have been very pleasantly surprised. It’s so strange to have so many of the baby phases end.

Another biggie this month was his newfound craziness for his Daddy. He’s always had a good ‘ol time with Wade, but that has really intensified this month. He has said “Da Da” a couple of times right to Wade and even while playing at the door outside of Wade’s office. (He only says “Ma Ma” when he’s upset and crying.) And I’m not surprised at all to realize that Wade can get the biggest giggles and squeals from Tate when they’re playing. I guess my prediction of Wade being the fun-loving Dad, and me being the strict Mom may be coming true. Yikes! Here’s a picture Wade took from some of their guy time. (He also had his SECOND haircut this month. The boy has got some hair.)

This has been a fun month with lots of changes, but has also been one of the more challenging months so far. With his new mobility has also come lots of frustration…for both of us. He has made so much improvement with his physical therapy, but he’s still somewhat limited to what he can really do and get into. This gets him VERY frustrated. This causes LOTS of whining. This gets me VERY frustrated. I know this is just the beginning of a whole new stage, but for some reason, I wasn’t expecting it until he turned 2!

Despite the whining, he continues to be a constant source of joy. He is already taking after his Daddy and seems to know no stranger. When we’re out and about, he will flash his big smile to just about anyone and talk to them in his “Tateish.” He still loves doing anything outside and would love to permanently move his room into the bathtub if we would let him.


After a big month like this past one, I’m excited to see what the next few months bring as I learn more and more about this little guy I love.

***Here’s an extra video just for fun. Too bad Tate couldn’t do this last Sunday for the Cowboys!***

11 comments:

Laura Scott said...

Yea Tate for being mobile! Let the fun begin :) Loved all the video...he's a cutie

Jody said...

Kelly ~
This is INCREDIBLE!!! You guys are doing an AWESOME job! Tate is so very blessed.

Sorry we've been out of touch. Obviously, it's been a little crazy.
Many hugs,
Janell

He is one little cutie!!!

Phillips Family said...

Yeah, Tate! Isn't if funny how cell phones always inspire kids to work just a bit harder?

Loved Tate's picture in the ACU today!

Brooks Inc. said...

Kelly-

I am so proud of Tate (and of you and of you and Wade!) Congrats on 14 months of parenting one of the cutest little boys ever!

Blessings to you sweet friend!

Becky

Keri said...

Lots of great things going on in your house this month. You are a great mommy Kelly! It is so evident in your posts about Tate. He is just a precious baby boy!

Kendra said...

Yea, Mr. Mobile!! Way to go!! I remember how frustrating those months are . . .the lack of effective communication, the desire to be able to do more than he can do yet, the WHINING, the crying . .. it was at this point of development with the latest Vaughn boy that Daddy Vaughn made his case for being "all done" in the procreation department! ha! This too shall pass . . .

Jennifer said...

what a great update! As for the throwing, we are teaching Cooper that if it's a ball its okay (but not right at someone's face when not looking) but everything else is a no. The whining part will get better= he's at that hard stage where he can't really communicate what he wants/needs so he gets frustrated easily. When he begins to really talk that will improve.

Ahhh, the long naps........Hudson took about a 3 hour nap until a little after turning 4. The day he gave it up was a hard day at our house- for ME!!! I got so used to having that down time. Enjoy those while you can!

I love when they go through the "daddy" stage. It means they have a wonderful daddy and that is something to be proud of.

He's a cutie!!

the Whitelaws said...

Kelly,
Sarah B told be about your blog because of the "block" pictures. I have an 8 month old girl and had to copy. Love the block picture idea but having a hard time. Yours turned out so great! Question: How did you keep Tate from grabbing the blocks?

You're welcome to check out our blog: whitelaws.blogspot.com. You may remember us from ACU. See you Fall '08.

Lisa said...

Way to go, Tate! Look at him go! Nothing is safe now!!! No more bottles & a 3+ hour nap - what a big boy! LOVE his crazy hair in the picture!

Anonymous said...

Go Tate!!
Can't believe you are already 14 months old either!

McCulleys said...

Yeah for Tate! That is so exciting that he is crawling. Way to go!

I am very proud of you for making the quiche. None really do compare to the quiche at La Madeleine. When looking at the picture of the quiche, Ashlyn was way more impressed on the bananas in the background.

We hope to see you this weekend.