Tuesday, March 31, 2009

American Idol ~ Top 9

This will be short and sweet because it’s late and really, tonight’s show was just kind of there. Who knew that I would like the Motown show better than the popular song show?

I definitely think Kris rocked the house. Can a 33-year-old suburban SAHM say rocked the house? Oh well, I did. And so did he. He has a great voice and picks great songs. Love him! You know that cute little wife of his is thinking, “That’s MY man!” :)



It is time for Megan to go. Yes, she’s unique, but I still don’t get it. I really haven’t understood the big deal about her from the beginning. But the last few weeks have just not been to the level of the others…and just uncomfortable.

As for the others…

Adam ~ Not near the greatness of last week but still really, really good. The best performer by far.

Allison ~ Yes, the dress was a little much. But the girl can still sing. Love her!

Anoop ~ Try again, sweet boy.

Danny ~ Great song. The only downside of him to me is that he kind of sounds the same in all of the songs. At least he sounds great, though.

Lil ~ I love me some Celine, but what were you thinking? She sounded good, but it made her sound my age…or even older!

Matt ~ I didn’t think it was incredible, but I didn’t think it was near as bad as the judges said.

Scott ~ Big improvement over recent weeks, but he still doesn’t measure up to some of the others. Billy Joel is always a winner.

Come on AI’ers…spill it!

Monday, March 30, 2009

Day Out With Thomas

From Tate’s perspective, yesterday may have been the highlight of his 2 ¼ years of life. It was the Day Out With Thomas. This was the first time I’ve seen him really look forward to something that was coming up. Even his birthday and Christmas in December weren’t met with this much excitement.

I made the mistake of telling him about it on Wednesday. The tickets were for Sunday. Lesson learned. Explaining four more days to a toddler is difficult. But once Sunday was here, he was crazy, giddy excited to get to ride the “big Thomas.”

We started the day right with a big breakfast of pancakes (french toast for me) at Cracker Barrel. I’m working hard at getting him to like eating there as much as I do, so it can become a regular thing. So far, so good. Our picky eater, inhaled two huge pancakes.

Then we were off to see Thomas. First on the list, there was a room full of train tables (every toddler boy’s dream come true), and Tate was pretty pumped to walk in and find a Thomas train right away. It never left his hands as he ran from one table to another.

Then he got to sit in an ambulance and ride a miniature train. Finally, it was time for Thomas’ arrival.

The train ride really was a lot of fun, and Mimi and Grandpa even joined the fun.
The experience was complete with a conductor punching your tickets…

… a Grandpa with a scruffy face…


…scenic cow pastures (we are in Texas afterall)…


…a sweet moment with Mommy…



…and a sad farewell as Thomas departed.


And once you’ve had the best day ever, you’re pretty tired.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

American Idol ~ Top 10

It’s time for the Top 10 recaps now. So who knew Motown could be so much fun? I was expecting some cheesy performances, but I thought so many of them were really, really good.

The incredible transformation of the night was Adam. Wow, wow, wow. I’m not sure I would’ve recognized him. Loved the makeover and LOVED the song. It’s pretty genius of him to do something like that after the hide-him-from-the-children performance last week. Even if you don’t like his typical style, you have to admit that he was the best of the night.



And I thought the second best was Allison. I loved how she did that song and can’t believe she’s only 16!

Anoop, Danny, Kris, and Matt all did great as well. I hope they stick around and get a chance to have a performance as impressive as the other two.


Sad to say, but I really think it’s time for Scott to go home. His story is very inspirational, and I’m glad he’s gone this far, but he’s not near the skill level as many of the others. He does the same Bruce Hornsby/Richard Marx - esque performances every time. Time to move on.

And if it was possible, I’d say send Megan and Michael home with him as well.

Your thoughts?

Friday, March 20, 2009

Tater Tot Update

Yes, I sometimes call him Tater Tot, and yes, I’m sure he will cringe and roll his eyes at me in a few years for that. But for now, he’s my little Tater Tot. And wow, what a difference a few months makes.

He seems like a different kid just since December. The level of communication and understanding is crazy. In fact, his communication has increased so much, that he was released from Speech Therapy…woo-hoo! As much as we hated to not get a chance to see our sweet friend, Kendra, every week, it is a true celebration.

I’ve heard several parents say that one day it will just explode. It seems like that is what happened the month of January. All of a sudden, we had a parrot in the room with us, and he was repeating everything we said. Exciting and scary at the same time. And then all of a sudden, he was speaking in full sentences…four, five, and maybe six words at a time. So, we’ve entered the world of ABC’s, counting to 20, and identifying everyone as a boy or a girl. He’s right 80% of the time on that. I try to run away the other 20%. :)

There is a still a lot of what he says that may need to be translated from Tateish, but I can usually figure most of it out if I think about the context and look around a little. One my favorite quotes of his recently was while we were in the car and had stopped at a stop sign. As I continued going straight, he said “Bye-bye T for Tate. Have a good day.” He was talking to the letter “T” on the stop sign. (Thank you Sesame Street and the “T” letter of the day episode.) I know I’m his Mom but things like that crack me up.




In other good news, this week will be his last week of occupational therapy. Another woo-hoo! He has been doing great lately, and it looks like he is caught up to where he should be on fine motor skills. His OT therapist, Teresa, is wonderful with him and so sweet. Again, we’ll be sad not to see her but are so thrilled the he’s doing so well. (These pictures are some of the things we do at home for OT…coloring, drawing lines, and playing with beads in putty.)



So that leaves physical therapy. I’m thinking we still have a few more months on that one. Our attitude is that we’ll continue to do as much as needed, but I’m hoping by the end of the summer, he’ll be where he needs to be.

A lot of people see him running 100 mph everywhere and wonder why he’s still in PT. Well, if you watch him for an extended period of time, you’ll see that he still falls a lot. Most of the PT work right now is dealing with coordination and balance. It’s almost like once he started walking, he went straight to running. So he’s still on the clumsy side, but it doesn’t slow him down or hold him back much at all.

This video is actually a month or so old, but a new skill that he just started was jumping. That is one of the coordination skills we’ve been working on, and you can tell that it isn’t mastered yet. But he’s trying hard, so it was pretty exciting. Since the video, he has made a lot of progress and even clears a little air. Now, he even has a jump shot with the basketball.



I continue to be so proud of all of his hard work. We’re just about at the 18-month mark of when I started taking him to Our Children’s House….sometimes 3 sessions a week! Hard to believe, but so glad that all of the help is really helping!

Monday, March 16, 2009

33…Really?

I don’t get upset about getting older, I just get surprised. How is it possible that I’m 33? That one rounds up to 35, which rounds up to 40! Crazy! And I wonder if I should change the name of the blog? I started the blog three years ago (pre-Tate), as my little place for randomness, self-reflection as I neared the big 3-0. I guess the name still fits somewhat, since I cant’ believe I’m in my 30’s.

My birthday was great. Complete with an ice cream cake (yum!), dinner with my in-laws, breakfast with my parents, a pedicure, lunch with great friends, an afternoon with Wade (thanks again M & D!), and a delish dinner together. Good thing I got the Wii Fit as a birthday present, because I’m sure I gained 33 lbs. with all of the celebratory meals.

I’m grateful for another year of a healthy, full life surrounded by more blessings than I can count. I eagerly look forward to everything this next year will bring...even if it does get me closer to the mid-30s!!!!

Thursday, March 12, 2009

The Rebuttal

So did anyone else read Wade’s recent blog post? I believe my idea to avoid buying a new dress was pretty genius. Wear the existing black dress I already had…then buy new shoes and a small little purse to dress it up and make it feel new.

And look…they were even cute shoes!


He brought our little discussion out to the battle of the blogs, so I figure I should make sure a rebuttal is fully heard. Now, I won’t even go down the road of explaining that I wasn’t asking him if the shoes matched the dress, but rather if the peep-toe heels coordinated well with the cocktail attire dress. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt on that one.

But I think my logic is pretty smart in the way of avoiding having to buy a new dress, as much as I’m sure I would’ve enjoyed that.

Anyone else with me?

And in case you were wondering, the shoes were so much fun to wear. Despite the enormous blister. I’m sure that is from my feet going into shock that they were in a shoe that was elevated off the ground more than my assortment of flats I wear just about everyday.

Friday, March 06, 2009

March 6 in Two Years...See Anything Different?




March 6, 2009

Don't you just love Texas weather?

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Cashola


So we’ve been trying to be all Dave Ramseyish around here lately and have started a new budget using the cash/envelope system. The new year created a need for a new budget, and our upcoming 10th anniversary has created a need to save up for the exciting trip we have planned. It’s a $$$ strategy I’ve known about forever but am just now taking the plunge. Anyone else a casher?

We’re 5 weeks in, and it’s gone fairly well. If you have no idea what I’m talking about, it’s basically pulling out most of your spending $$$ and budgeting it out into specific categories (envelopes). It’s a pretty simple concept that you are forced to follow…if you don’t have it, you can’t spend it. I still use the debit card or checking withdrawal for bills and gas but pretty much everything else is cashola.

And because this is a major change from using the debit card for everything, I have discovered something a little surprising. People seem annoyed at me for using cash. I now often find myself having to make correct change, which takes a little longer. I can’t get over the looks of pure annoyance I feel as I fumble for the quarter, nickel, and two pennies. It takes 10 seconds folks...patience anyone?

Monday, March 02, 2009

Easily Replaced by the Crazy Red Guy

Funny conversation this morning:

K: Tate, I love you.

T: Bye-bye, Momma.

K: Bye-bye? Where am I going?

T: To the office.

K: Then who would take care of you?

T: Elmo.