Tuesday, June 10, 2008

18 Months

Wow, a 1 ½ year old! I can definitely tell that we’ve entered a new stage. This new stage has its own set of pros and cons (as they all do), but it definitely has been one of the more exhausting stages for us all. The biggest reason is this:



He’s a cruiser! I still can’t believe it when I see it. He had been taking a few little side steps at the window, but then two weeks ago during a physical therapy session, he side-stepped about five feet on a bench. Ever since then, he will grab on to anything and everything he can and cruise around. It’s pretty hilarious to watch. I am so proud of him and so happy for him. The first week or so he was doing this, he would just giggle every time. Too cute. I’ll share more in a separate post about a new stage of his physical therapy progress.

To go with this new found skill, he has already had a ton of bumps and bruises. This kid has no fear, is excited about getting around in a new way, is sometimes overconfident, and is stubborn. Combine all of that together and you get lots of falls and accidents. We’re all a little worn out. :) But, we’ll take it.

We’ve also had several chances this month to turn into a little cycling family. Tate seems to love going on our family bike rides, and I try to not to take it personally when he laughs at me as I ride by on my bike. Maybe it’s the helmet.





He’s already had several visits to the place we joined with the great kiddie pool. He LOVES having the freedom to crawl all around on his own in this pool, which only has six inches of water.




Right now, one of his favorite toys to play with is the Little People barn. The little animals are adorable, but Tate prefers to throw/hurl/fling them off the bench and mainly enjoys the animal sounds the barn makes.







And just to prove that he is a true Texan, he’s already figured out the one-handed “Yee-ha!” on his horse.



One of the best parts of this stage is hearing and watching Tate crack himself up. He loves to laugh, and we love to hear him laugh. The other night before bed, he was realizing how completely and totally hilarious I am. Come on, who else can say “ha” with so much humor?



We’ve also noticed a little more development in his speech. Nothing huge, but more sounds and babbling. He still talks a lot (still very loudly), but we’re able to recognize more and more of his Tateish: Momma, moo, go-go, choo-choo, turtle, and doggie. Most people probably wouldn’t know that was what he was saying, but we're hearing more and more of the differences.

With all of the fun of this past month, we of course had the not-so-fun moments. There was the hospital visit. Here’s a pretty sad and pitiful picture of him the day before he was admitted to the hospital. The towels ended up being utilized, unfortunately.



Tate learned a new high-pitched guttural scream that week (probably during the lovely catheter experience) and has seemed to recall it whenever his diaper is changed or he doesn’t get his way.

And his ability to decide within 2.5 seconds whether or not he likes a food before he takes a bite has even lessened to within 1.5 seconds. This is usually followed by another bout of throwing and screaming. For some reason, we don’t seem to pull out the camera for those Kodak moments.

No matter what, I love this boy. The discipline strategies will always be around for sure, but at the same time, I can’t change that he is a strong-willed, headstrong little guy. I’ve been reminding myself a lot lately to be thankful for his enthusiasm, determination, and excitement. I want to foster and bring out the best in this little person we have been entrusted to raise.

10 comments:

Lisa said...

Happy 18 Months, Tate!

He looks fantastic cruising around - way to go, Tate! His giggles on that video are contagious!

Jennifer said...

Yeah for walking independently!! Enjoy this stage because just as you feel you understand it and have it under control, they change on you! But, there are all super fun!

Pearson Family said...

Happy 18th months! I am so glad to see those steps! Great horse picture!

Jody said...

The tears are rolling! This little man just melts my heart! I feel so blessed to watch this and be a part of his life! His little laugh is soooooooo contagious! You guys are the best!
Love to all~
Janell

Susan @ Blessed Assurances said...

What a fun post! I love to see all the great strides tate is making, he has definatley been in my prayers. God is good and He is faithful to walk with us every step of the way. Happy 18 months, Tate!

Sarah B said...

Great Report, Kelly! Fun to see what all he's doing and learning. Glad you're recognizing the challenges and the successes/joys of this whole parenting thing. Thanks for sharing.

Linda said...

I'm so happy Kelly! I can tell you that little Jon LIVED with a bruise on his face forever. I swear he would find any exposed corner with his little face. *sigh*

You are such wonderful parents Kelly! Tate is so blessed to have you both...yes, the new stages of stubborness and testing their limits will be hard, but your approach to appreciating his unique self is so admirable. A lot of people try to 'change' the child, when embracing and guiding them is what they need.

~Big hugs!

Kendra said...

He's such a cutie . . .I just love your little man!!

Riss said...

I'm so excited! He'll be walking all on his own before long, and then you'll never be able to keep up with him. And I hear ya with the bruises. Lukas' legs are covered in bruises since he took up walking.

Unknown said...

Wow 18 months already! I've so enjoyed watching him grow up through this blog (and now I read many posts at once... remember how those newborn days are?) He's a cute little guy and I can tell from his pictures and the stories that he is very sweet with a great personality!

That water park is tons of fun! Our kids love it too!